A very dear friend of mine and I were were discussing relationships tonight ... what makes them work, what makes them special, and what makes them fall apart. So I decided to sit down and inscribe my thoughts about what I actually want in a lifelong relationship. Some may seem silly and vapid. Some may seem unattinable. Some are ordinary and reasonable.
My thoughts on a perfect relationship:
I want the never ending love affair.
I want us to have an understanding of each others needs, to know the importance of meeting those needs, and to be exceptionally good at it.
I want communication without the fear of consequence.
I want date nights factored into our future.
I want someone to enjoy life with. Even if it means having fun just sitting on the floor or staring at a wall.
I want to breathe heavy when we kiss.
I want to get butterflies before dates.
I want to be able to solve any problem.
I want to understand and forgive.
I want balance.
I want a man that can embrace and thrive on who I really am. Not just handle me, but will perfectly compliment me.
I want a relationship that is untouchable.
I want everything.
Tuesday, June 30, 2009
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